After two cancelled weddings thanks to Covid my gorgeous God-daughter Francesca finally got married to her person Goodsy! On a gloriously sunny afternoon overlooking the beautiful Kangaroo Valley they said ‘I do’ to each other in the company of a small group of friends and family and their two little daughters, India and Harper. As the days leading up to it were decidedly wet and gloomy we all felt so blessed to be in this wonderful place witnessing two people who are very much in love pledge their vows to each other. Chezzy’s Mum and my bestie Leigh had worked SO hard with her hubby John to prepare their property to look it’s very best for this special day and no matter where you looked there were flowers and trees and green vistas. The sound of birds and the breeze whispering through the trees was the backdrop to their ceremony before the sounds of eating, drinking, chatting and laughter took over as we celebrated into the night. A really beautiful day with some of my favourite people. Just magic.

I felt like a 5 year old off to my first party when Tom insisted on taking my photo as I left for the wedding! It was so nice to get dressed up and put some make-up on and feel like a girl again even if it was only for one day! My feet had forgotten what it felt like to wear heels after 18 months in sneakers! Sadly my gardening and walking clothes have become far too prevalent in my daily wardrobe and as they are so comfy I find reasons to stay in them for way longer than my walks or gardening efforts take! After losing 7kilos of covid squishiness it is so lovely to access a whole new wardrobe without having to shop as all my old clothes now fit again and feel like new! I even ventured to Wollongong and the BIG shops for some new swimmers and actually enjoyed the experience for once!! I was surprised how lovely The Gong was, the main central shopping district was as pretty as a picture with troughs full of flowers everywhere (Berry township powers-that-be take note please) with leafy suburbia and a CBD that is literally a 5 minute walk to the beach and all within an hour of Sydney. I will definitely go more regularly from now on.

Apparently it is Storm Season. I don’t really remember anyone referring to it as that before but the media have definitely coined the phrase this year and I can see why. We have had some magnificent storms, some with gnarly cloud formations and short sharp downpours and others with great rumblings of thunder that make the house tremble and with flashes of lightening that split the sky with such force you’re grateful to be snuggled up inside. We’ve never had any issues with Bailey and storms thank goodness but there are lots of local dogs that really hate it and either run away in fear or whimper and hide indoors. Now that La Nina has joined the party the storms are starting to give way to rain, lots and lots of it and two years since we were in the midst of raging bushfires we are now hearing about many areas under water and crops lost. Life in Australia is never gentle. I am trying to be grateful for the rain, at least I don’t have to water the garden and I must admit the hydrangeas are loving it!

Since restrictions have eased somewhat we have dipped our toes back into the waters of a social life, starting by inviting our lifelong friends over for dinner on Melbourne Cup Day. It was the first time we had seen each other in months and we were like kids in a candy shop being able to chat mask-free and enjoy an afternoon of food and wine together again. We all appreciated it so much more for having been deprived of company these past 6 months and since then we have seen other friends and the MOTH has even been to Sydney for work, staying in the Big Smoke and enjoying the fancy restaurants again!

How adorable are these little boys? Cooper is really keen on cooking and helps his Mum at every possible opportunity all dressed up in his Chef’s outfit and with his little sous chef gurgling happily in the background! He is a really loving little boy and loves nothing more than snuggling up with his Mummy on the lounge holding hands and watching some TV on a rainy afternoon… a happy place for both Mum and Son! I am so looking forward to having them and their 2 little girl cousins here for Christmas this year. It will be Bedlam of course – but of the loveliest kind!

So as our little town starts to open up we are back to fighting for parking spaces and restaurant seats as people from Sydney and NSW travel once again. Some shops and restaurants have undergone renovations and used this time to reinvent themselves with new hours and different offerings. It has been a time to rejig what is important to people and redefine what they want going forward. The workplace will probably never go back to a pre-covid format which means people are much more flexible which should be a good thing and give people a better work life balance. We are starting to dream of going back to Europe, our much planned and looked forward to trip from 2020 now reimagined for September 2022. It is still too early to look for flights but we have a vague itinerary that gives us something to look forward to at least and once we see how Europe copes with Covid this winter (so far that isn’t going too well) we will have a better idea what we can and can’t do. In the meantime we dream and plan and save!! And if we get stuck there is always a road trip?

After 4 long months we were finally allowed to travel to Sydney to see our family. It was so exciting, I was like a kid at Christmas packing up the car and Bailey dog even came for the eventful reunion! When I pulled up at the house and Cooper came running out to greet me with that million watt smile on his face I was truly happy. Yes we may have missed out on holidays overseas and eating out in restaurants but what we REALLY missed was being with the family, hanging out and chewing the fat – nothing earth shattering, just being together. As you can see from the pictures we were happy little vegemites all round. Sadly Tasmania is still shut but has announced they will open their borders on December 15th so Rara already has a ticket on the 10am plane to Hobart! I will finally meet my smallest granddaughter and have a couple of precious days with her before returning to The Meadow for Xmas and the arrival of the ENTIRE family!!! It will be chaotic but fabulous I’m sure…..

This was the Princes Highway (the main road from Sydney to Melbourne) the day before travel to and from Greater Sydney resumed. It will probably never be this empty again and it has definitely been the silver lining of lockdown that the traffic has been almost non existent. They have forged on with the upgrade and as you can see it’s just the finishing off of the median strips that needs doing in most parts now. Hopefully by Xmas the road will be 4 lanes allowing the holiday traffic to flow, unlike the past 3 years where it has been a 10km traffic jam between Berry and Bomaderry!

I had to laugh last weekend when I went out into the garden and saw the MOTH and our neighbour having a chat over the fence ‘country style’ The sound of ride-on mowers is the playlist of my weekend as we are all back to mowing about 3 times a week with the sunshine and rain causing it to grow about an inch every 3 days!

As we pass the magical 70% double vaccinated milestone we are looking forward to eased restrictions in just a few days time and hopefully this little swing will soon have some little people in it enjoying that view! It has been a long 4 months since we’ve heard giggles and laughing in the garden and we are READY to see everyone again asap. That will happen at the 80% double jabbed mark and we have tentatively pencilled the 22/23rd October in our diaries to go to Sydney and see our boys and families but it could still end up being a week later if things don’t go according to plan. Tassie is still well and truly shut to all other States so there is no point getting excited to see that branch of the family just yet but each day is a day closer at least! As much as we are excited for resumption of life (and I was OVERJOYED to receive a call from the hairdresser booking me in) there is bizarrely a tiny little tiny part of me that is a bit sad to think our days of just being us and being able to do what we want when we want (even if that is only walking the dog or gardening) and not having to think of other people’s plans is almost over. The diary is already filling in and events are already clashing with so many people trying to reignite a vestige of our “old life” that I am exhausted just thinking about it! I guess it’s all about the balance as always and it will no doubt be like a comfortable old jacket that once put back on you wonder why you ever wanted it any differently. But for now I am a bit wistful, this has been a time like no other in my lifetime and we got through it, reinventing ourselves along the way. The young ones are champing at the bit of course and with Summer and the festive season just around the corner it will be a perfect storm but one that they need. Twenty months of not being able to socialise and feel free must have felt like a lifetime and I am very happy that there is finally a big bright light at the end of this Covid tunnel for them.

I guess this also means that once again Berry will be heaving with people coming and going from Sydney on their way somewhere (and let’s face it we can only travel within NSW for now) and the ‘Famous Donut Van’ will once again have a huge queue snaking around Berry as the hordes descend on our infamous Star of the Town and then we will know for sure that life is almost normal once again!

The garden is full of activity of the mating kind. Hares are everywhere chasing each other through the paddocks, there are new calves lying in the tall lush grass, just a set of little black ears twitching to show they are there and the birds are going troppo as they find mates and prepare nests. We have 4 gigantic cuckoos here from New Guinea who LOVE our mulberries and frighten me every time I go outside as they fly out of the tree, huge wings flapping and creating a ruckus. They don’t seem to bother the other birds but I will be happy when they move on. The greatest joy at the moment is the tiny birds, little flashes of blue or yellow as they flit from bush to bush, their little bodies only causing the smallest of rustling as they hide within rose bushes and hedges where no other bird can go. Their song is so pure and at a pitch that punches above their weight, being heard above the bigger birds and always filling me with the greatest of appreciation for them.

Our gorgeous Bailey suffered a second seizure two weeks after her first. This time it was a petit mal and she didn’t lose consciousness but it went on for hours, her body twitching and spasming and this time she realised something was wrong. She couldn’t find any comfort unless she was pressed up close to us and therefore she spent the evening on the couch (a 1st) with us both stroking her and comforting her. It was awful in a different way to the first seizure as we kept waiting for the big one which never came and as a result we were super anxious, completely incapable of cooking and eating dinner and very worried when it came time for us to go to bed but the next day she seemed completely normal and when we visited the vet they advised us to wait for just one more BIG one before we consider medicating her as the drugs have their own side effects apparently. So we are trying to go with the flow and not worry too much whilst keeping an extra eye on her activities. I am gradually relaxing enough to leave her at home when I go out although not for too long just in case! I still hold on to the hope that it was a reaction to something rather than ongoing epilepsy, I guess time will tell….

Our 11 chickens are happily co-existing with the youngest two finally permitted to join the older girls at night on the roost. We are getting between 6 and 9 eggs a day which is far too many for just two of us and we have a regular weekly delivery to nearby friends who are chicken-less, even then we always have at least 3 or 4 dozen eggs at home at any one time and they range from big double yolkers to a tiny egg that is perfectly formed but just half the size of a regular egg. We thought it was the young ones just beginning to lay but it has been going on for weeks now so maybe that is the size they will always be?

We have been having some glorious Spring weather and some days that are more like Summer but the other day two weather systems collided and we had a huge hailstorm that literally covered the lawn in little white balls and bought the temperature plummeting down by 15 degrees! You can just imagine the sound of the hail on our tin roof, Bailey who doesn’t even twitch when we have a thunderstorm came looking for me and sat at my feet until the storm passed! The strawberry farm down the road lost it’s entire crop in just 6 minutes, the soft fruit no match for the ferocity of the storm. It doesn’t seem to matter what you are farming, there is always something that is going to wipe you out it seems.

While we have all been waiting out Delta, things have been progressing with the 10km upgrade to the Princes Highway from Berry to Bomaderry. They pulled down the 1st lot of trees three years ago and it is finally nearing completion. If you liken it to a renovation all the hard lifting has been done and now they are starting to pretty it up – the floors are being laid and the painting is being done before the final touch of curtains and furniture. The road itself is 95% done and now they are doing the median strip, sometimes including plants and sometimes just a guard rail, the signs are up but covered and the roadside planting has begun with some amazing mature date palms at our local intersection as well as gums and natives where the landscape allows. Once it’s finished and all the mess is gone I’m sure all we will notice is the amazing scenery as we drive up and down the coast.

Last weekend was the October Long Weekend where usually all roads in out of Sydney both North and South are chockers with people escaping the big smoke. This year of course there was barely a car on the road and the only thing on the calendar was the footy Grand Final and with no sons here to shout and cheer at the smallest of misdemeanours or good play with the MOTH, a few beers and a packet of chips was about as big as it got at our place. It was an exciting weekend for me though as the clocks went forward meaning longer evenings and finally a chance for us to sleep past 5.30am. As usual half the clocks in our house are reading different times as we gradually get around to changing them all….not always the easiest of tasks….

Over the past 20 months we have all been intimately acquainted with our local area. Who would have though the immediate 5kms from our house would EVER become so important? It’s a bit of a suburb lottery as to what you get to see everyday on your walk and never have we been so grateful to live where we do. The 5km rule doesn’t apply to us in rural NSW as some people’s driveways are that long!! We have the whole of our Shoalhaven LGA to play in which goes as far down as Jervis Bay but stops just north of Berry. We have about 5 different regular walks which luckily include the beach and the river but mostly we just stay super local and wander the local lanes. At this time of year they are a joy…let me take you on a bit of a virtual walk down the lane..

As I cross over the Highway and pass the church where my daughter got married there is a sweet waft of perfume from the self seeded freesias growing on the verge outside and sometimes I pick a few to pop in a little vase for next to the kitchen sink or in my bathroom. As I continue on past the stud the horses stand as still as statues, only a few ears twitching and turning acknowledging my presence. As I get nearer to the little creek I hear the gurgling of water thanks to the showers over the past few days and the air is full of the sound of throaty singing as the frogs call to attract a mate. I check out the house at the end of the street that has been coming together over the past 2 years in fits and starts. A lovely weatherboard with wrap around verandahs and views to the escarpment and nearly ready for occupation. Sensibly they planted a garden when they started building and now there are beautiful blossom trees and flowers around the perimeter for them to enjoy and masses of bulbs have come up with a veritable florist shop of flowers to choose from to pick for the house.

Around the corner I pass the duck pond where two duck families share lodgings quite happily and then I stop to say hi to the goats, a small goat farm of around 30 and they are very sweet, often running to the fence to greet me on my daily travels. From there it is open paddocks, black Angus cattle dotted in fields of yellow which look very pretty but are in fact fields of the noxious Fireweed. These invasive plants originated in South Africa but have taken firm hold in the countryside here and as each plant holds 30,000 seeds which are light and fluffy and easily dispersed by the wind so you can imagine how inundated we all are with it. It contains a poison which is toxic to cattle and horses and they will naturally avoid eating it but it tends to get cut in with the silage and can have an accumulative effect on their livers if they eat enough of it. It’s lucky the flowers are so obvious at this time of year that we can easily pull them out of our garden, you can only imagine how many of those seeds get blown in on the westerly wind!

As I turn for home I hear a rustling in the long grass and out of nowhere 3 hares scamper across the road in front of me. They are running so fast around and around in huge circles and I’m not sure if they are three adolescents having fun or perhaps 2 bucks chasing a poor doe with a definite sense of purpose and a twinkle in their eye! A flock of white corellas swirl above me twisting and turning like a shoal of fish before landing in a paddock to feast on some unseen delicacy. The birds are all very busy now that Spring is here and we have witnessed a large amount of parrots in our garden. The mulberries are starting to fruit which always attracts them and we have several pairs of King Parrots and Crimson Rosellas as well as a group of Rainbow Lorikeets that have taken up residency in my giant pear tree just awaiting the next thing to ripen or seed…a giant smorgasbord in The Meadow.

So as the lockdown has gone on….and on…and on I really felt the need to achieve something positive during it, to make it a less negative experience and to give me a sense of purpose in what was otherwise a rather strange world where I had no control over what was happening or what could happen in the future. As a result of a somewhat blasé previous 6 months when the only fun thing we’ve been able to do is cook, eat and drink and say what the heck, I was starting to push the boundaries of my fat clothes and something needed to be done. As there was no chance of socialising it seemed like an ideal time to try and lose those covid kilos and for some unfathomable reason I woke up one Thursday and decided to start! Starting is always the hardest part for me and I didn’t hold out much hope to be honest but I made a 3 week commitment which seemed doable and it really has been so much easier than I thought it would be! I am now in week 5 and have lost 6 kilos so far. More importantly I am feeling so much better, am LOVING my 5-6km daily walk and am not missing my evening wine half as much as I thought I would! Better still by the time we open up I shall be looking a whole lot better and have a little buffer for the inevitable dinners and get togethers that will be on the cards.

Last week I experienced 2 minutes that I never wish to repeat. Our beautiful Bailey Dog started barking as if she was being attacked and then fell to the ground in a seizure that seemed to last forever but in reality was only about 2 minutes long. I didn’t really know what was happening and thought she might have been choking on something but there was nothing blocking her windpipe so I had to just let her go through it. I was beside myself not knowing what to do and fearing the worst. She means so much not just to us but to our kids and the grandkids too, I just couldn’t face losing her and having to tell them. As she started coming out of it she shakily stood up, her eyes glazed and she was foaming at the mouth. I eventually managed to get her into the car and set off to the vet 9 kms away. By the time we got there she jumped out of the car happily wagging her tail when she saw the MOTH waiting for us in the carpark. If I hadn’t seen it happen I wouldn’t have believed anything had occurred! She drank about 2 litres of water while the vet checked her over and she has been given the all clear despite low blood sugar and low red blood cells which could have been explained away for a variety of reasons. The only thing we can put it down to was her scavenging some old maggoty chicken necks at the back of a nearby property which she eventually vomited up the next day. Perhaps they released some sort of toxin? She also presented us with a couple of dead rabbits that she must have found in the paddock but we are certain no one around here would be baiting/poisoning animals as there are too many livestock around and everyone in our lane has a dog. At least I will recognise what is going on if it happens again and if she does has another seizure they will prescribe her medication for epilepsy going forward. I have been loathe to let her meander off on her own since just in case she finds another ‘treasure’ and we are keeping a very close eye on our beloved Choccy drop as we would be lost without her.

Our garden is giving us great joy at the moment. As a rule we spend more time working in it than enjoying it but I think that is starting to change as it matures. Our wisteria which was planted well before we arrived is really a major job throughout the year, keeping it trimmed and winding the soft new tendrils around the arbour post to encourage it’s growth along our balustrade. However, when those first purple pendulums burst into flower I forget about all the work and just love seeing it drip in heavy fragrant clusters called racemes which the bees absolutely adore. This whole corner of the garden is very bee friendly as the lavender is also in full throttle and the spring daisies are also competing for some attention. In a few weeks it will all be over for another year or if I deadhead properly perhaps we’ll get a second showing in Autumn. I’m pretty sure this was planted back in the 80s so I am very grateful for the gardeners that came before!

In an interesting twist it looks like we may be able to fly to London before Hobart if our State Premiers remain stubborn and keep their borders shut to NSW and our far flung family may have to plan a holiday in Fiji in order to be reunited with each other! Surely once the government has worked out a usable home quarantine system we can once again plan a few overseas jaunts with some sort of confidence? I know Australia is a beautiful country but sometimes you just want to launch yourself into a completely different culture, lifestyle and enjoy the diversity of food that comes with it. For now Europe may be a step too far but maybe, just maybe, The Camerons may be able to start planning that holiday in Fiji….

Well it’s been a few weeks folks, because, well…Covid… and let’s face it every day is like Groundhog Day adding or subtracting the odd trip to the supermarket, garden centre or medical appointment. I must say however that as each day creeps towards Spring we have noticed lots of changes in the garden which help to keep me focussed on lovely warm days ahead and hopefully a Christmas with the sound of laughter and children playing whilst their parents enjoy a cold beverage! Dreaming is free right?

So as the fresh new leaves unfurl on the trees and my wisteria is sporting fat purplish buds just waiting to burst open any day it makes me hopeful that better days lie ahead. The jonquils and hyacinths have been and gone and now the sweet peas and salvias are having their turn, a prelude to the roses which after their recent pruning are already filling out with leaves and the promise of flowers to come. It is so nice to be able to bring some of the outside in with blooms strategically placed around the house to make me smile. Covid may have spoiled our lives over the past 18 months but nature carries on regardless and has probably even enjoyed the lack of people out and about. It is uplifting to see the cherry blossoms on our daily walk and the birds are dipping and darting and flirting with each other ahead of some serious lovey dovey and nest building. I love seeing the parrots sitting in pairs canoodling and snuggling up together, they seem to genuinely enjoy the whole process as opposed to other creatures for whom it’s all over in a second or two, occasionally coinciding with their death! Nature is sometimes very weird!

Before the lockdown I was having a lovely old time as I have made some new friends! Whether you are 6 or 60 it is always nice to meet new people who you enjoy being with and who have similar outlooks on life. In these times especially I relished meeting up with some girls who I met initially through a mutual friend but have continued to see through our love of dogs! We all love our furry friends and it is so nice to meet up for a walk or at our houses for some afternoon tea and chatter while the pups play together! Vanessa has the most beautiful views from her house and has sheep, cows, alpacas and goats whilst running a home away from home specifically for Golden Retrievers. Luckily Bailey and Billy have been granted a special dispensation to join in on Doggy Daycare Thursdays!

In the best news in ages, we were so very happy this week to welcome India Elizabeth Cook into the family. She kept us all waiting an extra 9 days but she was definitely worth the wait. 4kgs of deliciousness and already settling into family life in Tassie. We are so happy that they are all free over there with no Covid cases and as they are locked out from the rest of the world they will hopefully stay that way. Sadly that means I can’t be there as we had originally planned although I still hold out a tiny bit of hope for my October 18th flight yet to be cancelled. Luckily her In Laws came to the rescue, staying with them before, during and after the big event to help with our little Myla. She was very much looking forward to being a big sister but I’m not sure the reality is quite what she expected and she isn’t too keen on sharing Mummy at this point in time. I’m sure she will get used to it all very quickly and be Mummy’s Number One Helper before long. In the meantime she is rather overly enthusiastic in her affection to her baby sister and her Dad has suggested they may need to bring in security! In a lovely nod to our family India bears her maternal Great Grandma’s name – Elizabeth, as Myla has her paternal Great Grandma’s name – Josephine. A wonderful duo to emulate that’s for sure and a little bit of history passed down the line. Needless to say Gigi is very chuffed!

Another thing that brought a smile to my face this week was a parcel we received in the mail with these words on the back!! Inside was a batch of homemade baklava from our friend Nick and it definitely left us feeling all warm and fuzzy as well as overjoyed to have something delicious to eat with our afternoon cuppa. A simple kindness that meant a lot. It has inspired me to try and pay it forward …a chain letter of deliciousness and kindness…

When you move to Australia from another continent as I did and know absolutely no one, your new family and friends really have a lot of work to do to fill the void of home, but I have been very lucky with my In Law family. They are all lovely and even if we don’t see each other very often we always pick straight back up where we left off and now as we are slowing down a bit we hope that we will get to spend a bit more time with them all. Heather was my local sister in law and with 3 kids each and married to the two Cameron brothers we had a lot in common. We used to call each other every Wednesday to chat and de-brief, especially when we were missing our kids who were living overseas or the husbands were being especially Cameron-ish!!! Thirty minutes later having solved the problems of the world we would hang up feeling much better about things. Sadly 18 months ago she was diagnosed with a terminal brain tumour and it all happened just as Covid raised its horrible head meaning we haven’t really been able to see her. She passed away two weeks ago at home with her family around her as they luckily all live nearby. She had some good patches in that time and was so thankful that her expat children had all come home prior to Covid and she could spend some time with them and even witness the birth of another little grandson. Family was everything to her and she would have derived immense pleasure from cradling that little guy. We went through a lot together throughout the years and I will miss her a lot. Make the most of every day folks, you never know what lies around the corner…

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As the UK celebrates “Freedom Day” and covid restrictions are all lifted with people free to live ‘normally’ again, we in NSW are plunged into the biggest crisis we have so far experienced since the pandemic began. Delta is causing havoc and so far we are in week 4 of lockdown in the Greater Sydney Area. Here in rural NSW we are not in lockdown but we are feeling the ripple effect of it. Being only 2 hours from Sydney a lot of our businesses rely on the weekend tourism and local holiday homes to provide them with income. Things here are VERY quiet and as masks are once again a requirement most people have cancelled their gym and exercise classes and with so many friends and family unable to visit from Sydney cancelling restaurant bookings etc – we are mostly just waiting for this to pass before resuming normal activities. I have been personally affected by the shutting of State borders to NSW leaving me with cancelled plane flights to Tasmania where I was due to fly this week ahead of my Daughter giving birth. Her In-Laws are also stuck in Queensland (where they were catching up with their daughter who they hadn’t seen in over a year) when this escalation occurred. As they have their car and caravan with them they are finding it hard to find an allowable route back to the car ferry in Melbourne by August 2nd as it is tricky trying to avoid all the border closures. Not what we had all hoped and planned for and needless to say we are more than a bit devastated that we may not be there to help but we are madly hoping that Tasmania will open it’s borders to rural NSW again soon and I can hop on that plane asap.

So as life has shrunk once more to our immediate environment we just thank our lucky stars that we have such a lovely choice of local areas to walk around and grab lunch outdoors which is still a delight in the winter as long as the sun is shining. Kiama has a wonderful coastal path that hugs its shores and you can walk as little or as much of it as you desire. Diggies is a fantastic café-restaurant where you can tie your dog up and enjoy a delicious lunch outdoors with a view of the coast that fills you with gratitude for our natural environment. I’m praying that Covid stays out of the regions as it would be a death knell for these little places.

We’ve had a rather bird orientated week here in The Meadow. Firstly the Corellas have come back. They hang in huge groups of at least 200 and we can hear them coming from kilometres away, great swathes of white in the sky as they swoop and turn before settling on the perfect trees or water troughs making a great hullabuloo as they do so. I have NO idea what they are trying to do? There is no food here for them? They stay only 10 minutes or so and then they are off again in search of goodness knows what. They look like baubles on a Xmas tree when they land, screeching across to the other trees which are similarly laden with birds.

The plovers are also in full throttle, their calls are heard constantly across the paddocks as the Dad wheels and soars above the nest where much against the odds they somehow raise a few chicks right in the middle of a field which houses cattle and the odd fox. Goodness knows what their success rate is but you wouldn’t want to be betting on it.

Our “chicks” who are now almost the same size as their Mum, are demonstrating teenagerish habits in as much as they don’t want to be thrust out of the nest. Peaches has up until literally two days ago been a supremely diligent Mother, still tucking them under her wings at night in a nesting box but the tide has turned and now she has abandoned them, finally returning to the roost at night and after so many months you can’t blame her. The kids have now got to be brave and follow suit and despite the pecking order in the hen house I don’t believe the older chooks would actually throw them off if they gave it a go??

One thing that discouraged all of them to enter the Chook-Mahal yesterday was the presence of 2 crows who had greedily snuck in and stolen the newly laid eggs before realising they couldn’t get out again. Rather stupidly they forgot how they had entered and spent a few fruitless hours flapping about trying to get through the mesh to the great outdoors. I managed to get the adult crow out as he was too large to take refuge in the rafters like the juvenile crow and ended up on the floor right next to the exit. Sadly the younger bird spent hours trying to escape and rather exhausted in the end was easily caught by the MOTH and released to its family who had gathered on the fence line above the chookyard trying to encourage its departure. Hopefully once bitten twice shy and they will stay away.

Our own little chick, Oliver, has been growing steadily while we have been locked out of Sydney and we are so sad we cannot be there to enjoy this gorgeous stage of his babyhood. He is a happy contented little chap and proof that good things can still happen during a global pandemic. Hopefully we will be able to make up for it big time when this is all over. In the meantime thank goodness for facetime eh?

I have taken some solace from the garden which continues to need my attention. This is the time of the year that we prune everything back – especially the roses and the salvias. The hydrangeas have to be trimmed back to the fat buds and the fruit trees need to be thinned out and pruned to a height where we can actually pick the fruit. The wisteria is best trimmed back whilst it is leaf-less and we can see its winding tendrils, even now there are new buds arriving every day so I am on notice to get it done soon. My veggie garden has been bare this winter as we let it rest and breathe. The weeds have diminished (for now anyway) and I have added loads of compost and soil improver to build it up ahead of Summer. I’m planting some perennial basil to encourage the bees around the perimeter and I’m looking for a good spot for a new lemon tree and to transplant my Olive tree, which currently lives in a pot. Our exposed position in the middle of the paddocks mean we have very little sheltered area away from the wind so despite our couple of acres we are not spoilt for choice unfortunately. I picked the last of the roses mixed with some camellias which made me feel happy for a day or two at least!

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One of the biggest things we’ve learned from this pandemic is how important it is to have something to look forward to. A visit from your family or friends, going out for dinner or a drink at the local pub and most definitely holidays. A trip abroad is on most people’s to do lists after all this is over. A trip to Queensland is almost as hard to organise with State borders opening and shutting like a barn door. With a visit to the UK high on my list to visit my Mum and Sister I also have a yen to revisit Greece where I lived for a couple of years back in the early 80s. I have such fond memories of it despite the fact I was living on the smell of an oily rag, sleeping on beaches and in Youth Hostels and limited to one main meal a day! I think I’ve been scared that if I went back it would spoil those memories but I now think I owe it to myself to do it in a bit of style! I can just imagine the MOTH and I wandering these beautiful little alleys and enjoying some great food overlooking the Med……

1. The only travelling we are doing right now
2. The crazy ups and downs of Covid….

I love this picture of bucolic bliss with the chooks free ranging next to the cows, we also love the fact that we can enjoy the cattle without any of the work that goes with them! We have been grateful as always to be here especially when Sydney went into a Covid lockdown for 3 weeks. We were lucky here to only incur restrictions – masks and social distancing and 5 guests to your house – but the ripple effect from Sydney on our little town has been huge. It happened just as school holidays began and of course that meant many, many cancelled bookings of accommodation, restaurants as well as the lost hordes of people that we generally see during school holidays visiting our retailers leaving many to reduce their opening hours and resort yet again to offering takeaway. We had several fun things planned that have all had to be cancelled including our annual Xmas in July weekend but so many people are doing it tough I can’t bring myself to have a whinge! Hopefully by Spring we will be on a path to opening up Australia as the country becomes vaccinated. I had my first one a few weeks ago and already feel I am better equipped if I came face to face with the virus and look forward to the day I can be fully jabbed and hopefully freer to book some overseas trips, especially to the UK to see my family.

Luckily we managed to squish in one of the infamous long lunches hosted by The Old Church at Milton before the lockdown came into force. This one held a rather special place in their heart as it was a fundraiser for Ovarian Cancer, something their daughter went through at 30. She is one of the lucky ones that caught it early and she is now a spokesperson for the cause as many young women never imagine it will happen to them. She is a lovely young woman and it was fabulous that with the generous donations from many people they were able to raise $19500 to further the research being done by UNSW to get on top of this disease. The entertainment for the day was superb. Murray Hartman who is an amazing Bush Poet and raconteur had us laughing in the aisles with his very clever verses about life’s ups and downs and a great comedian Tahir Biljic who had us in stitches with his unique brand of humour and very kindly drove the 7 hours round trip to contribute to the afternoon. News of the lockdown came through the marquee like Chinese Whispers, a ripple up and down the rows as people’s phones beeped and rang alerting everyone to the new stay at home orders starting a mere 2 hours later! The band had barely begun to play when we all had to pack up and head home. The important stuff had been done though and we had had a great day to boot.

Winter is in full throttle here. We wake to white frosty lawns that crackle underfoot as we walk to let the chooks out in the morning, our breath blowing great plumes of steam. Almost daily we see firewood deliveries and the evening air is perfumed with wood smoke. Most days however we have blue skies and sunshine and by 10am it can be warm enough in the sun to be in a tee shirt but inside the house its cold and a two layer minimum is necessary until we light the fire in the afternoon! The veranda is THE place to be and 5 minutes out there warms you better than one hour in the aircon. It has to be my favourite place in our house no matter what time of the year but especially in Winter.

I think Marilyn must be the number one fan of this blog. She has never failed to read it and leave a comment, she loves reading the stories of our country shenanigans and seeing our little family expanding. A happier, shinier person you couldn’t wish to meet. Her positivity got her through breast cancer a decade ago and through it she discovered she had a talent which then became a business helping others through guided meditation and teaching relaxation techniques. She loved music and singing, travelling everywhere she possibly could, she believed in the strength of friendship and family and the power of the Universe. Thus it came as a cruel blow a couple of years ago when she was diagnosed with Motor Neurone Disease. She fought it and then accepted it in her own inimitable style despite hating it and the restrictions it brought her. Covid certainly didn’t help. Her only son was living in England and she had rented a house for 3 months to coincide with the birth of her grandson but it was not to be. Luckily the kids managed to get jobs in Australia and returned at Christmas to spend some precious time with her and she finally got to cuddle her grandson. Sadly she lost her battle last week and she has left a big hole in the Universe. A shock to us all but also a blessing to be released from such an insidious disease that steals your body whilst your mind remains fully functional. We will miss her smile and her company. I will personally miss her encouragement which she gave me constantly and hope one day to fulfill some of her suggestions to me.

This is a rare picture of Australian parrots in the snow! Their striking colours contrasting beautifully against the white background as they search for some treats on snow laden branches in an inland town during the big polar blast experienced here last week. The lowest June temperatures in 123 years apparently and we have never been so grateful for the all encompassing warmth of our woodfire. Somehow nothing else warms a house up quite like it. The air con makes it comfortable enough but no where near as cosy and despite it needing a bit of effort (ordering the wood, then stacking and moving it) it totally makes winter an enjoyable season for us! I’m making the most of waking up later as it doesn’t get light until 6.30ish rather than 4.30 of mid summer and by 4pm the sun has sunk behind the escarpment and it’s pitch black by 5pm! We eat dinner earlier as it literally feels like 9pm by 6 and we indulge in some Netflix or my current fave program on Amazon Prime is Jeremy Clarkson’s Farm which is a scream. To give you an inkling his farm is called “Diddly Squat” which is what he reckons he’s going to make from it! The program is all about the trials and tribulations of farming of which there are many – definitely worth a watch! Jeremy’s rather gormless/gloomy face as he realises he’s made yet another farming faux pas just cracks me up! 😂

I love this word and the way it sums up something intangible that some people feel, the need some of us have to upsticks and move to another country or to try our hand at farming because we feel a connection to the land. Feelings that may seem unfounded but stir deep within us and have no apparent logical beginning or end. The sea calls to many and to others the green of pasture land or a stream running though the woods and is the yearning we call home or Hiraeth.

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Home is also where family comes together and for this June long weekend we had Sam, Liv and the boys down to stay for 3 nights which was lovely. Oliver’s first trip to The Meadow and he was such a good little pumpkin, literally eating, smiling, blowing raspberries and sleeping! Cooper was very happy to be back and made good use of all the facilities available to him! Cooking Rara toast, pasta and eggs in the cubby house kitchen was high on the list and helping Papa with the chickens became a ‘must not miss’ morning routine. He loved picking oranges straight from the tree and he and Papa shared some special moments whilst peeling them while a certain little Choccy dog looked on hopefully!

As the never ending highway upgrade is happening right at the end of our lane we managed to get our ‘digger’ mad grandson up close and personal with a huge one currently not being used. On seeing it he threw his arms open wide declaring he was excited!! He was thrilled to “touch it” and “feel it” I love how easy it is to make a 2 year old happy sometimes!

So now the house is a little empty and the pantry no longer full of the baked goodies that tend to come with the arrival of visitors and I am ready with a LONG list of things to do. I know Spring is the traditional time to clear out cupboards and clean but somehow I always feel more inclined in Winter when its blowing a gale outside and I’m snuggled up indoors as opposed to a beautiful Summer’s day when I’d rather be walking the dog on the beach! Thus the list and this includes a few little jobs I’ve had in the back of my head since we moved in – changing the surround to the front door is one of them. It currently sports a yellowy coloured reinforced type glass which doesn’t let in much light to the hall so I’m thinking of changing it to proper glass, perhaps with an etched border or something to give a nod to the age of the house. Some research and pricing is necessary before I get too carried away. The same applies for another little project – to change the hearth tiles around the two older fireplaces which are cracked and also a bit boring. The trouble with little projects is it’s hard to get someone in for a small job unless they have a small gap between jobs for the big boys so I’ll just have to have everything ready to go for that window of opportunity! The other task is to rearrange the artwork in the bedrooms. We have changed the furniture around since we moved in and now the art looks out of whack as a result. The trouble is as soon as you move something you leave holes behind that need plugging/painting and then the paint looks weird next to the old paint and you end up re-painting the whole room!!! Watch this space!!

Steam rises from the cows as they lie on the dewy grass, the remnants of the morning mist hangs low in the dips of the hills like splodges of fairy floss and the leaves are falling from the trees creating a crunchy golden carpet underfoot. This is Autumn in The Meadow. It’s been quite a chilly one this year with an early start to buy firewood, unearth the electric blankets and generally cosy up. It seems crazy that just a few weeks ago the weather was warm enough for us to be in the garden in tee shirts and even to enjoy a meal outside! Luckily this coincided with a visit from our Tassie girls, Lauren working remotely meant she could work from here as long as I could provide childcare which I undertook gladly. We had some lovely days together with Miss Myla making me MANY cups of tea and toast in the cubby house, walks down the lane to see the cows and the horses, art work of every possible persuasion (I now have playdough of various colours inserted into several rugs!!) She absolutely LOVED feeding Bailey every night and her little face just shone with pride as she made Bailey sit and wait before she gave her the magic instruction to eat! Such power!! Her other favourite thing was waiting for Papa to come home in the afternoon and for her to help “drive” his truck, occasionally leaning out of the window and singing “la-la-la-la” rather operatically to the cows as she passed by! It was just so nice to spend some consistent time with them and do the simple every day things together, it helps us cement a bond with her that she remembers even if its a few months in between visits. Facetime certainly helps too, we even managed a call to Gigi in England so they could see each other in the flesh! Wonderful technology indeed and we’re so lucky that at 85 Mum is embracing of all of it!

On the weekends we managed a couple of trips to the beach, some local walks and playgrounds and a particularly lovely trip to Kangaroo Valley where we ate a picnic next to the river while Bailey swam and did her happy dance filled with the pure joy of it all. While she was here we also managed to celebrate that they bought a house! They have been looking for a while but the housing situation in Hobart has gone completely mad in the past 18 months and things were selling within hours of going on the market and for up to 20% more than the asking price, all of which was a bit nightmarish for our 1st time home buyers! After several very ‘close but no cigar’ moments they saw this house online and Berry had to go and see it alone, videoing it all for Loz to see and then ultimately becoming the lucky winners without her even having set foot inside! It’s a very exciting time for them after more than a decade of living overseas in furnished apartments to finally be able to furnish and decorate their own home. They will rent it out for a year as it’s all a bit too hectic now with the new baby arriving in 2.5 months and it will give them some time to work out their plans to renovate it. It’s hard to believe that this was their last trip to The Meadow before the new baby arrives and things will no doubt be slightly more hectic next trip with 4 kids under three joining us for Christmas!

We enjoyed another night in Sydney with Sam and Liv before she caught the plane home and the little cousins had fun together dancing around the lounge room and playing musical statues as well as plenty of joint artistic endeavours! Baby Ollie was again the star of the show, being the first thing Myla would request to see in the morning! He is 2 months old already and a good little bub, luckily very happy to eat and sleep and is starting to become his own gorgeous little person. I am looking forward to them coming down to stay for the June long weekend, this is the longest we have ever gone without them visiting but now that he is starting to sleep through the night hopefully they can relax and enjoy some time away and a change of scenery and Cooper can be reunited with his bestest fur friend Bailey.

Apart from the family fun we have been kept busy with our new baby chicks who are now getting rather confident in the manner of teenagers and are brave enough to mix with the other chooks but still run to Mum’s side and answer her clucking if they sense she isn’t happy. They are big enough to do nearly everything now and are 3/4 feathered but they still snuggle up under Peaches wings at night in one of the nesting boxes. They are safe and warm in there with her and it will still be another month at least I imagine before they roost with the whole gang. We haven’t had any eggs in weeks but today there was a freshly laid egg for us when we went out to check on them so fingers crossed they will all steadily get back into the habit as it has been most strange to have added eggs to my shopping list lately!

The next job on the to do list is to prune everything back in the garden. Once the leaves are finally off we can prune the fruit trees, wisteria, hydrangeas and attack the mulberry tree. This involves sawing it off at the top of the trunk before it branches out, leaving a totem pole from which new supple branches will grow which we can tie to the trunk forming a lollypop type shape which means the fruit will be available to us and not the birds (the inside part anyway!) and make it much more manageable. My roses are still blooming despite the cold end to Autumn although they are looking a teeny bit sad and leggy so I am hanging on until July to cut them right back. The gardenias are happier than ever and they have been joined by the camellias of various colours so there is still a bit of interest in the garden for now.

With Winter’s imminent arrival my thoughts are turning to slow cooked meats and curries, oozy cheesy bakes, home made pies with flaky pastry and hot puddings with custard! A salad just doesn’t seem to cut it at this time of year and after a few hours working in the garden there is nothing better than a bowl of hot soup with some fresh bread from the bakery. Thank goodness we live in a climate that has 4 distinct seasons so we can enjoy all the different foods at the appropriate time meaning we never really get fed up with any of it! After a summer of barbeques and chilled rosé it is so nice to come inside, light the fire and enjoy some more substantial food with a nice glass of red! Vive la difference!

We are at that stage of the year when the colours begin to look more like Scotland than Australia and the leaves are crunching underfoot as I walk to the washing line and the chookhouse. The nights are cool and we have upgraded to the winter duvet and the electric blankets are about to be brought out of storage. Day time temps are still mild from 19-24 degrees and this creates the most spectacular morning mists. I awoke today to a complete whiteout and lumbering through the mist came huge hulking shapes passing our back fence in a steady stream. That they were cows became apparent as the sun rose and the heat burnt off the mist, so much less menacing in the daylight and already steadily ripping and chewing the grass in the paddocks. A chorus of silent chewing as they go about their daily task of eating their body weight in grass – they need every minute of the daylight at this time of year to get their necessary calories. I love their collective concentration on the task at hand just occasionally looking up if we venture too close to the fence or a certain chocolate dog cheekily barks at them whilst running past. The younger cows are very curious and will run across the paddock to see if we have anything special for them and will follow us until they are stopped by a fence, they remind me of a pack of large over excited dogs.

It has been a lovely few weeks with a trip to Sydney for a surprise 60th birthday lunch for my Sister in Law who is here from Switzerland. Her sons and their partners did a great job of rallying some of her oldest friends and family from far and wide to come together for a lovely sunny afternoon in Bronte where we enjoyed a seafood and champagne extravaganza in her honour. Lots of the cousins hadn’t seen each other for 4 years or longer so it was a very special afternoon for many reasons. I loved that she had absolutely no idea that it was going to be anything other than a lunch with her sons, we managed to capture a few pics of her shock when she arrived!

It was a great opportunity to see the latest additions to the tribe and for Aunty Sue-Ellen to grab some rare cuddles with the littlies. As she and I know to our cost, the decision to live in a country that is not your birth country and without your extended family on hand, means we miss out on a lot of these kind of events and have learned to grow a thick skin or we would be forever a babbling emotional mess, Covid has upset the apple cart further by taking away what was basically an exercise in saving the money and then taking the time to visit our families overseas and has made everything sooooo much harder to plan anything for the foreseeable future. We both try not to think about it too much as it would really be upsetting especially as we have parents in their 80s and 90s and we feel precious time is being wasted. 2023 will hopefully be the year we can once again safely plan a trip to Europe.

This lunch gave us a great excuse to have a quick catchup with our little grandsons. Oliver is growing fast and is so far a dream baby and Cooper really couldn’t be any sweeter as a big brother. He gives him little cuddles and pats him gently with the odd kiss to his head and has shown no jealousy at all so far which is always a relief! He has however started to escape from his cot, even from within a sleeping bag he can climb out and waddle down the corridor to Mum and Dads room. Great timing with a 5 week old and already with limited sleep, the last thing they need is a midnight wanderer!! Here he is caught in the act via the baby monitor!!

A week later Myla and Lauren arrived from Tasmania for a two week trip. As she works remotely she can easily work from here but Rara has to provide the daycare that Myla would normally go to 4 times a week! We made the most of a Sydney Airport pickup to stay in Sydney so that Aunty Loz could meet little Oliver and Myla and Cooper could reconnect. They are really so close together in age they are almost like twins, one minute cuddling and kissing and the next proclaiming the same toy to be “mine” and having a bit of a Mexican stand off! It works well with both of them having their midday nap and bedtime at the same time so basically life is either STOP or GO depending on the time of day!!

We have some new baby chicks! After thinking that the eggs Peaches was sitting on were not viable the MOTH went to take them away after 3 weeks but when he lifted a squawking Peaches off the nest there was a little fluffy chick and he could see that another egg had signs of activity with cheeping from within! So we are very happy that two of the 6 hatched and it is such a different experience from when we bred chicks in an incubator. It’s fascinating to see how Peaches looks after them and they became independent far more quickly than those born without a Mum to teach them. They follow her around copying her every move, scratching up the straw to find treats and now we let them outside every afternoon (separated from the other bigger chickens) they bury themselves in the dust with Mum as if it was the best fun in the world. My Swiss SIL has named them Citron and Plume meaning yellow and feather and I think it’s just perfect. Now let’s just hope that they are both girls……pleeeeeeeease?

So Rara is now girding her loins for a very busy couple of weeks of Myla daycare and hoping that the weather gods are kind to us so we can play outside a lot although the forecast is not looking too good……HELP, wish me luck!!!