A Tricky Week.

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I’m not quite sure why, but this week I fell victim to something that felt a lot like stress.

“How can this be?” you ask, when I’m surrounded by the serenity of the countryside and wake up to birds singing and nothing to do all day except tend to the veggies.

Well, life still catches up with you no matter where you are and after a week of being joined to my computer and a list a mile long of things ‘To Do’ I took a much needed day off away from technology to unscramble my brain and reconnect to the tranquility! Cam has been away being A Businessman and trying to get things in place for the big ‘End of Things’ mid March and I have been holding the fort with the Chocolate Drop and the chooks. Perfect for me to get a whole lot of things sorted out I thought. Accommodation was researched for our trips, wedding suppliers chosen and booked, meetings with the builder and architect arranged for our imminent renovation and then I started choosing tiles, taps, doors and windows,ovens, benchtops and toilets etc etc. So, as useful and convenient that the internet is, it means many, many hours on the damn computer and not much time out in the real world.

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This little cartoon resonated with me! I guess we just have to learn to unscramble our minds and see and enjoy what is right in front of us….

So I had a day off….

I felt guilty not doing some of THE LIST and a bit twitchy not being ‘connected’ but it was good for my soul and I enjoyed some local walks and a trip to Bowral. The drive was sublime. Blue skies and fields of bleached straw with little hay bales dotting the landscape. Beautiful homesteads with their deep verandas and tree lined driveways and cows, horses and alpacas grazing in paddocks that stretched endlessly into the distance. And to top it all off at the end of the scenic drive there were shops…!!

With Paris this Autumn in my mind I purchased a rather stylish pair of ankle boots to sashay around St Germain in and I couldn’t believe it when the girl told me it was the last pair! For heaven’s sake we’re still in the middle of Summer and these are the new Winter season stock – CRAZY!

This is a little snapshot of my most local and regular walk. Luckily this is right on our doorstep!

Funnily enough one of the things I’ve missed the most from my old life back in England is the hedgerows. Little winding country lanes with hedges of blackberries and raspberries all interspersed with brambles, huge stems of cow parsley and healing plants like nettles, burdock, comfrey, dandelion and dock leaves. You can walk for miles in the English countryside because we have hundreds of public footpaths running in between privately owned land with stiles to go over their fences making it wonderfully accessible and communal. Australia doesn’t have this sadly, which means we are limited to walking along roads and in the National Parks. The only trouble is no dogs are allowed in The National Parks so our dog walks in particular hinge on having some nice local country lanes to wander down. In our instance we are blessed to also have the magnificent 7 mile beach to walk along but there is only one small part that is an off leash dog area.

Some little Aussie hedgerow plants!

One good thing about being home alone is that I haven’t had to cook and it’s been easy to start the NEW REGIME. Instead of giving everything up simultaneously I have slid gently into my new eating plan and hopefully I will stay on track having the odd night off for a dinner out or at home with friends. My squidgy bits have to go!! I’m so lucky to have a wonderful Pilates Studio near me and a very dedicated, knowledgeable and patient teacher who knows just how far to push this old body!!! A couple of hours a week there in conjunction with some walks, stretching and a general awareness of posture will hopefully make the difference I am looking for. This young lady looks like she is appreciating the rather drop dead gorgeous view from the reformer too (makes that awful glut work a bit more bearable!!)

I finally found out where the other rock pool was in Gerringong. It is tucked away around the corner from the main beach in what was the old boat harbour back in the late 1800s. Produce came and went from here to Sydney and other towns along the coast and it’s position in a naturally sheltered bay made it a perfect place to also build a ‘Ladies Baths’ to be kept quite separate and away from the ‘Mens Baths’ of course!! I love swimming in rockpools as I’m pretty hopeless in the surf but LOVE the sea! It is a lovely place for a swim with the water being naturally replaced with the tides and always fresh and clean. If you read and believed the accompanying risk warning however you would probably think twice before entering! All this before you ever get to thinking about sharks……..

Bailey is now the proud owner of a new bed.I am hoping that it won’t go the same way as her first one which was chewed to death. She doesn’t really chew things so I think it was the fact that every morning she awoke to the holes she’d made with the stuffing tumbling out tantalisingly close that she couldn’t resist. The new model is a lot harder to ruin and I can cosy it up in winter with something snuggly.

So I’m choosing to forget her prior indiscretions and remember that

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Summer Fun

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Well Summer came back with a vengeance this week didn’t it folks!!

We were reduced to waking up early and getting straight onto the physical tasks that needed doing or it was just way too hot and sticky later on. Worse still if we didn’t do it in the morning we would have to sacrifice Happy Hour to do it in the afternoon shade so that was enticement enough for me to wake at dawn!!

We have planted a new hedge along our front perimeter, well actually we’ve just filled in the (many) gaps in the existing hedge so that it will eventually outline the garden with a nice neat edge! We’ve poisoned off all the grass under the new crepe myrtle trees so that my new gardening helper Todd can dig a beautiful winding flower bed for me to fill with hydrangeas. Todd can’t help me for a couple of weeks as he is the celebrant for some friends in Byron Bay this week and has some musical commitments to complete as well – he sounds like an interesting and well rounded guy who will hopefully be able to help us with the hard yakka stuff so that everything is looking lovely in time for the wedding!

The farmer behind us planted a huge paddock with corn a while back with the intention of feeding it to his 1000  cows as a treat. Just the thought of milking 1000 cows twice a day is enough to make my head spin to be honest – it must take most of the day! We’ve seen the corn growing taller and taller so we trundled across to have a close up look. It’s quite a sight and at least 8 foot tall and it stretches endlessly in either direction. I’ve never seen our house from this angle before and it looked quite different from behind…

The house from the front isn’t looking too crash hot at the moment. The local courtesy bus that a certain son caught back from the pub a couple of weeks ago decided that it was easier to drive straight across our lawn at 1 am than to reverse back out and as it had been raining for the entire 2 weeks previously, the mini van sunk into the lawn leaving track marks reminiscent of an airport runway. 250 kilos of soil later we are hoping the grass runners will soon start to infiltrate the soil and we will have our nice lawn back! So much for courtesy eh?

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Our (almost) resident handyman Smutzer came down to help Cam put up the dartboard. After having it propped up in the corner of the garage for the past 12 months it thrills me every time I walk into the garage to see it now perched happily on the wall. A perfect 1.73m from the bullseye to the ground and with a nice background board for the wayward darts (they would be mine) it is a vision of beauty! To see the two boys working side by side with the new drill kit was very pleasing and the old dog has certainly learnt a new trick and can now use the Xmas gift the kids gave him.

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A few other residents have learned a new trick too…..

We have been letting the chooks free range for the last couple of hours in the afternoon which they love. Love however may not be quite the right word for how I feel when I see them in the middle of my rose bed kicking up  all the mulch I have lovingly laid down but I do like seeing them roaming around the garden and enjoying some freedom. Even the traumatised chook comes out now but is usually the first one back in and is easily spooked. I wondered what the strange noise was coming from the veranda the other day and discovered a soccer loving chicken right outside my door…..!!

Turfco, our local turf farm and a business that is heavily involved in all local happenings are also a creative mob and I always know what special event is coming up as they create a little scenario with some model cows who have become quite famous. It always brings a smile to my face as I drive by their turf farm and see how they’ve interpreted Xmas, Easter, the footy finals or Valentine’s Day…

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We enjoyed our degustation dinner at The Green Olive in Nowra and can recommend it for lunch if you are passing through on the way to or from Sydney, much easier to get a car park here than in Berry too! I had been good all week so it was lovely to have some wine and a delicious dessert to round it all off – a real treat!

The next day dawned hot and steamy so I needed no encouragement to get up and take Bailey for a nice walk and swim on 7 mile beach. Sammy joined us and we all loved watching her really stretch out and run through the surf chasing seagulls and leaping into the waves to swim with her special mate visiting from Sydney….

We have an official ‘retirement’ date now – March 15th (God help me!!) and in the lead up to the handover Cammo is in Melbourne, Sydney, Brisbane, Adelaide – in fact he’s everywhere other then The Meadow,  but that gives me some time to organise all the upcoming events! We are going to have a road trip to country Victoria in Week 1 just because we can-yay!! I have always wanted to visit the Daylesford region and it should be beautiful in early Autumn. A foodie destination as well which is always a good thing!Then another week up in Forster to visit family and friends and we can take the Chokky Drop too which makes it easy. My Mum is celebrating her 80th birthday in September in the UK and we are planning a trip there to kick our heels up with the birthday girl and also having a week in France before and a week in Lake Como afterwards so I am like a woman possessed researching hotels and doing some quality armchair travelling along the way! Not to mention the wedding of course which is coming along nicely organisation wise, it’s such a fun time to have with your daughter – precious and special. A kind of final chapter to the years of dressing up and playing fairy princesses as a child, a wedding is the grown up version and I want it to be every bit as magical as she imagined it as a little girl.

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I remember doing this with my Mum and the story continues……….

Grange and The Milky Way

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What a beautiful week of sunshine and warm but not too hot weather we’ve had. This is the perfect time of year for an early walk along the beach or an afternoon walk along the river with The Chocolate Drop. She is never happier than when she’s running full pelt along the sand and leaping into the surf to fetch a stick or a ball. We have started taking her to Shoalhaven Heads as it’s a leash free beach and she gets to socialise with other dogs which is so important. She’s actually a bit of a sook, after initially showing unbridled enthusiasm and literally dragging me to say hello to a dog she will then be quite submissive, even with a smaller dog, until she’s 100% sure they are going to be her friend and if there is more than one dog she is like that kid in the playground that just looks longingly on from the sidelines until they invite her to play! The kite surfers have been enjoying the conditions too and sometimes we can have 4 or 5 of them out there making a colourful sight for us walkers.

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It was Nowra Show this week and our very talented neighbour was up to her elbows in flour, butter and sugar as she cooked up a storm to enter cakes, relishes and chutneys into the show. She had a few practice runs and we were the lucky recipients of the overflow from the Muller kitchen. These scrumptious little morsels didn’t last very long and we have a yummy boiled fruit cake tucked away for later too. She came away with 5 x 1st and 5 x 2nd prizes and can continue to hold her head up high in the local community !!

Our dear friends from Sydney finally made it down to The Meadow for a visit and brought along their daughter Viv. It was especially nice for her to see some of the countryside as she lives in the middle of London for most of the year but her job as an Opera singer has enabled her to spend the last couple of months at the Sydney Opera House in a performance of The Pearlfishers and she enjoyed a well deserved weekend off on the beautiful South Coast (she especially enjoyed hanging out with our chickens ).

So after a quick tour of the house and garden we retired to the veranda for happy hour and a catch up on life in the big smoke before dinner. Greg surprised us with a special treat when he opened a box to reveal the bottle of 1984 Grange that Cam had given him for his 60th!! It was everything you would hope for and I just wish I had known and I would have concocted a more elegant meal to accompany it!! We enjoyed brekky at Gerroa the next morning, I just love that little town – it’s like going back in time to your childhood and has the most charming feel. A beach house there is on the wishlist!!

I couldn’t resist showing our city guests the amazing starry night. With not a cloud in the sky it was a perfect swathe of black velvet sprinkled with a million stars. All the usual culprits were there but as your eyes adjusted to the darkness the entire milky way revealed itself too. As usual I was reduced to feeling like a little ant in the scheme of things and just marvelled at the enormity of our universe. I wish I had the right kind of lens to take an accurate photo of what we saw but these will give you a pretty good idea!

I realised this week that I should get my act together ahead of the proposed renovation of the back of the house. After being in Council for 2 months I’m hoping the development application will be approved any day now and then we will sit down with the builder and the architect and work out our plan of action. As the renno includes a kitchen, bathroom and laundry there are a fair few decisions to be made!! After spending hours researching online and getting rather depressed at the cost of all the kitchen appliances I lust after, I just ended up ordering a mirror for the new bathroom instead! Things have to start somewhere folks…!!

I am having a slight design blip that you may be able to help me with??

The kitchen is to have a new window installed to open it up to the back garden and the deck area. We will be able to harness the cool southerly breeze in the summer and be connected to the entertaining area too. We thought a hatch type window would be a good idea, with a nice wide ledge outside doubling as a bar or just somewhere to sit and chat while I’m cooking. The bit I’m unsure of is do we have a bifold window or a single window that lifts up on a giant hydrolic hinge thing. There will be cover thanks to a small skillion veranda attached to the extension so do I really need another ‘roof’? I do like the clean line of it though with nothing getting in the way of the ‘bar’ and out of the way of sticky fingers! Just a bit concerned it may be a bit too modern for the age of the house. The other option is to have some sash windows that can also be opened just a little bit if necessary for a breeze rather than the whole thing?

Thoughts??

After my crazy resident mower smashed into my Anduze french style urn (one of a pair of course!!!) and reduced  it to smithereens I have to re-pot my buxus plants into something nice and maybe move it to the front door where no ride-on mower can touch it. There is a beautiful garden shop/nursery in Bowral that I am going to visit this week and I know I will leave it inspired to clip my plants into perfect balls of topiary. I still struggle with my tendency to formalise my garden, it’s a style I have always loved but since my move to the country I have really tried to be more open and flowy with my garden – embracing curves and less structure but it’s a constant battle with my OCD symmetrical side! Maybe a couple of these will keep me happy…..

2016-02-04 08.39.33As we approach Valentine’s Day and all the hype that entails we thought we may make the most of some of the local events. Our friend Nikki is having a degustation dinner at her cafe/restaurant on Saturday night and at $75 for 5 courses and BYO that’s a winner! Silos winery is offering a cinema under the stars experience on Sunday with Romeo and Juliet being shown and a picnic basket and bottle of wine available to the loved up participants. Let’s face it – anything with Leo in it is bound to get the girl’s hearts racing!

So my lovely people, have a wonderful week full of sunshine and love and remember at all times to stay in touch with your inner child…..

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Call it Passata or just plain tomatoey goodness

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It still feels like a treat to be able to pick flowers straight from the garden – after 5 years of inner city living with just a courtyard our new country garden is still one of the things I cherish most despite all the work it entails. The roses never cease to amaze me, they are far sturdier than I had imagined and can cope with our horrible westerly winds as well as hot temperatures and pouring rain and somehow they have escaped the many bugs and fungal problems they are renowned for. Maybe that is why they are a staple in every country garden around here?

During our recent research of wedding venues I have been lucky to peek inside some fabulous local gardens that I would never usually have access to. I loved one place in particular as it was a labour of love by the original owners which is now continued by a team of gardeners at Merribee in Numbaa, about 20 minutes south of us. It is a popular destination for a country wedding and the new barn on site has made it even more attractive.

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This weekend Berry played host to “The best show in town” and the annual Berry Show went ahead despite the huge storm cells that have been playing havoc with the east coast of Australia this week. Despite the muddy conditions and the humid weather it seemed everyone in the area turned up for this quaint old fashioned country show. It was like going back in time with a side show alley, slushies and pluto pups alongside the Country Women’s Association scones with jam and cream. Our boys were down for the weekend so we traipsed along to support the locals and saw an amazing array of roosters and chooks in the poultry pavilion. Some of those roosters were truly magnificent – all glossy feathers and bright colours and VERY loud crowing, some of them were so big they filled the entire cage and were a little bit scary with a don’t mess with me gleam in their eye….

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A mandatory look in the R.M.Williams shed, the tractors and the horse jumping before the woodchop which is always good fun to watch. Despite a generous handicap system the winner managed to fell the tree in record time and the young ones could only look on and dream that one day they too would be that fast.

As our veggies are tripping out on all the sunshine and rainfall Tom and I decided to cook up some of our huge tomato crop and make some passata. Everything we used was from our garden – onions, garlic, tomatoes and basil combined to make the yummiest sauce. The tomatoes have been so prolific and I have been particularly amazed by my beautiful ‘Rouge de Marmande’ tomato. One plant has spread out to over a metre wide and about 7 foot tall and the huge fleshy ridged fruit is delicious and sweet. I finally understand why people wax lyrical about home grown tomatoes. Unfortunately however all this huge rain has ravaged the plants leaving lots of ripening reddening tomatoes on bare shrivelled stems so I am picking as many as I can before they give up and die!

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On the first night the boys were here I cooked a recipe from the beautiful ‘Alla Fratelli’ cookbook which showcases the ever popular dishes from their Fratelli Fresh restaurants. The only Italian style cookbook you will ever need I promise.

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Parmesan crumbed veal cutlets with peperonata, silverbeet with garlic together with duck fat roasted potatoes. It was delicious but the standout was the peperonata. Made from our own capsicums and onions it proved to be a lovely sweet sour accompaniment to the rich crispy meat and potatoes (you can find the recipe in the kitchen section))

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Well, as January slips away and most of the silly season socialising is done I guess it’s time to buckle down and eat sensibly, drink less wine on the veranda and generally get fitter. It’s impossible to do it any earlier with everyone in holiday mode and so therefore the Feb Fast challenge is a timely reason to give up the plonk for a cause. Also loving the fact that it’s also the shortest month to abstain……and ending with my birthday giving me permission to celebrate 2 days early!!

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The time is flying as it tends to when you don’t want it to. It’s rather strange that the farmers are already cutting the hay for winter and the gardeners are planning the Autumn/Winter crops – who wants to think about brussel sprouts and cauliflowers when we are still eating salads and peaches? It’s rather like the fashion industry, always looking ahead to the next season,  the jumpers arrive in the shops when we are all still in our shorts and summer dresses, making it hard to live in the moment. When we moved down here I was determined to try and enjoy each day and season for what it was. I am prone to always be looking forward to the next big thing, the next trip away or the next weekend planned with family and friends and I really wanted to try and appreciate the everydayness of life as well. Granted there isn’t too much excitement attached to grocery shopping or housework and it’s far more fun to plan our trip to Europe later this year, but I am determined to try and see wonder in the small things just like little children do and be grateful for this wonderful new life we have in The Meadow.

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El Nino AND La Nina at The Meadow???

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What the hell has happened to January?

Mid summer one minute and plunged into Autumn/Winter the next. I don’t know what’s worse, 40 degrees and stinking hot or 20 degrees and pouring rain. We have had both in equal measure this week. Poor Bailey has been restricted with both types of weather and has been seen looking gloomily out of the front screen door as the rain tips down or huddled in a shady spot panting and trying to keep cool. Don’t even get me started on how the chickens are handling it all………..

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Well nothing if you feel like a quick kip under the fan one afternoon I guess but in reality this is part 4 of our bed-in-the-wall saga.

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After waiting for more than 4 months for completion, 3 weeks to get a replacement spring when it broke during installation and another week trying to work out why the cupboards were not now flush after installing the new spring, the unit was finally functional (if a bit wonky) in time for our Christmas guests and the bed was really comfortable to boot – Woohoo!! However my euphoria was short lived, as on pulling the bed down on Xmas Eve there was a sickening  sound of ripping wood and crunching metal (which is never a good sound let’s face it) and the bed has been there ever since! Of course the cabinet makers went on holiday on Xmas Eve for three weeks and on examining it on their return this week they have decided that new bi-fold doors are the only option to decrease the weight load on the mechanism which luckily had just “popped” off the hinge rather than break. So here we go again………..!!

In the meantime it is a nice place for an afternoon snooze……..

In another ongoing story – that of the frangipane that wouldn’t flower – there is a slightly more positive outcome. Let me explain….

When we moved into our house in Rozelle 6 years ago there was a fairly advanced frangipane sapling planted in our rear courtyard. When I redesigned the courtyard I transplanted the tree into a big pot and moved it to a nice sunny spot. I have always loved frangipanes – such a summery and tropical flower to a little English girl – and I was determined to nurture it until it sprung into life and rewarded me with an abundance of flowers to enjoy. It managed a few leaves every year (literally about 6 leaves) and gave me just enough hope that with some love, sunshine and water it would one day be magnificent.

Needless to say that never happened and when the Real Estate people came to take pictures of the house for the rental ad my neighbour felt forced into trying to ‘help’ the situation by attaching some fallen frangi flowers from another tree with cellotape to our plant! Pretty sad state of affairs . I was sure once we planted it in the rich Meadow soil it would flourish and reward us with a lush tree. One year later it was still a stick and the sad day finally came when I decided to pull it out when on closer inspection there were some signs of action with some swelling around the top of the tree and would you believe a few weeks later a crown of flowers has arrived! Absolutely no leaves but there is life AND FLOWERS  and after 6 years my hopeful optimism has finally paid off…

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The other flowers are going great guns and it’s as if everything is on steroids – flowers, veggies AND weeds. If you don’t get a chance to get stuck into the garden for a week due to the wild weather you pay the price with weeds up to your knees and zucchini as big as your lower legs – it’s madness!! The flowers are all pretty happy though…..

This week we celebrated Bailey’s 1st birthday!! We (coincidentally) invited our neighbours from the lane for a bbq and they bought their new border collie puppy Dougal for a playdate. Hard to believe that Bailey is now the grand old dame and we have a new kid on the block. She has had a good week socialising as Jess bought her two gorgeous dogs Panterra and Frankie down to The Meadow for a visit and they spent a lovely couple of hours chasing balls and running around. Bailey was particularly fascinated with little Frankie, who is hardly much bigger than one of Bailey’s toys! Bailey looked like a giant in comparison. As you can see from the photo they are a real small/medium/large trio!! Hopefully Jess will come for longer next time now they have all “met” each other successfully.

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Happy 1st Birthday to our beautiful Bailey, we have loved watching her grow from a gorgeous little pup to the fun loving life-be-in-it dog she is today.

The produce continues to go bonkers in the veggie patch. I will definitely be planting differently next year as there is no way on this earth you can eat/pickle/give away this amount of grub every day. In the pre supermarket days locals apparently used to decide who would plant what and then they would all swop so they all got a useful variety of fruit and veg – something we should perhaps introduce?? This week I’m making tomato passata and relish, picking bread and butter cucumbers and preserving capsicum and eggplant. We now plan our meals around the veggies instead of the other way around!!

Australia Day was a rather soggy state of affairs down on the south coast and the Big Berry Breakfast that had been advertised at the Showground was washed out. We celebrated instead with a slow cooked shoulder of lamb with an eggplant and tomato bake and loads of fresh green beans from our patch. Our friends joined us for some drinks to celebrate the special day in our calender and Cam enjoyed his extra day off in The Meadow before heading back to the Big Smoke and the slog of the 9-5. I have LOADS to do to get everything back into some semblance of order but I’m rather easily distracted………………

 

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Dreaming,researching and planning…..


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The weather has been just beautiful this week and the garden is in full throttle. The roses are tumbling over each other as they bloom and the cottage garden is filling in nicely. The veggie patch is ridiculous and I have been dropping bags of zukes, cukes, eggplant and tomatoes to everyone in the lane that doesn’t have their own patch as there  is way too much stuff for me to use/pickle/freeze. I’m getting about 20 cucumbers a day, about 6 zucchini, 4 eggplant and 10 tomatoes! Crazy!! Thank goodness we bought a new fridge freezer before Xmas so I can actually store everything. Today I am making the bread and butter cucumbers and moussaka. I’m grating loads of zucchini and freezing it and the rest we are peeling into long strips, marinating in oil, chilli and herbs and tossing onto the bbq with the evening’s meat chicken or fish – delish!!

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The week started with an appointment at the beautiful Jaspers in Berry where the unique and passionate Rosi showed us around her lovely wedding venue. It sits behind some huge trees on the highway and we have always wanted to see inside! Tom even came down from Sydney to lend a younger perspective and to video it all for the engaged one. It was like being transported to another world and I don’t think there was ANYTHING that she hadn’t thought of. The accommodation was top shelf, the 3.5 metre verandas were gorgeous and the interiors were as unique as Rosi herself. A nod to growing up in Papua New Guinea and the old colonial way of doing things. The icing on the cake was the most magnificent tree in the front garden strewn with fairy lights which instantly made me think of ‘the Magic Faraway Tree’ – it’s as close to my imagining of it as I have ever seen….

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Is this the real Magic Faraway Tree?

Despite it’s magnificence – or maybe because of it – it’s not quite what the bride-to-be wants. I think after being surrounded by the high end luxe of Honkers she doesn’t really want everything to be shiny and sparkly and her heart lies elsewhere….

For anyone else out there looking for a great venue not too far from Sydney don’t hesitate to check out http://www.jaspersberry.com.au

It was lovely to have Tom down, however briefly, although it ended up costing me more than I thought…..After having a couple of coldies on the veranda in the evening we retired to bed and I woke in the morning to the sound of Bailey crunching something on the veranda. As she has a penchant for sticks I didn’t worry too much until I got up and discovered this…….2016-01-11 08.22.50

Tom’s designer sunnies looking less than functional – and one very sheepish dog.

As the weather was so gorgeous we headed out to 7 mile beach. Our neighbours told us of a secret(ish) track that comes out in the middle of the beach away from most people and the Rangers! So together with the Chocolate Drop we went and had the most magnificent walk with not a person in sight. Just unspoilt apart from the odd bit of driftwood and a few shells.

Our week ended with a nice visit from some old friends from The Ping who popped in on their way to Canberra. We had a terrific lunch at Silos with them and I can’t stop thinking about the hand churned goats milk butter rolled in ash that accompanied the homemade bread and that was before our main courses which were very pretty and totally delicious! We are so lucky to have this place just 5 minutes away from us and they have just started a snacking menu which means you can come for just a nice glass of wine and a snack if you don’t want to do the full blown lunch thing. http://www.silos.com.au

My head has been spinning with all the wedding plans.  You have to research and price everything before you can book anything and I can’t believe that things are already booked so far into the future. You can get a venue but not the caterer or the other way around – it’s nuts! Cam and I have been to visit a few places now and there are so many truly beautiful places to tie the knot around here we are well and truly spoilt! We feel the responsibility of being the eyes of the bride but thanks to the power of the internet she has been able to do everything except actually visit the venues from her desk in Hong Kong. It’s a bit like renovating (which we’re also beginning again – am I mad???) as you have to have all your ducks in a row to know if you can actually afford them!!! Luckily I have one of the most down to earth daughters in the world which makes things a lot easier and when things all get too much I just go and sit on my front veranda and drink in the scenery. Instant relaxation…

On top of the wedding preparations we are planning a trip to Europe later this year to celebrate my Mum’s 80th and also trying to get some renovations done on the back of the house. I  seem to spend loads of time on the phone or on the computer researching accommodation or flights or bathroom and kitchen appliances! We are still waiting for the final tick of approval for the DA.  I received a letter from the council telling me who is looking after my application and saying I can contact him between 9-10.30 am Mon-Fri. Needless to say after phoning him every day at the appointed hour I have still not spoken to him. I guess he will get sick of my messages one day and actually call me back??????????????? Once we get the plans back it will be a bit chaotic for a few months as we get everything built but we have our lovely trip  to look forward to when it all gets too much!!

I had a little chuckle to myself when I saw this….

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We made it!!

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Wow – a whole year in The Meadow!
It’s gone so fast, we’ve learned so much and we’re still married!! That’s got to be a plus right???

It’s amazing how quickly a new way of life can feel like home when it’s the right move. I popped up to Sydney yesterday for a Specialist appointment (and those of you that know the struggles I was having last year will be as thrilled as I was to learn that I now have almost normal lung function – I am just nudging the lower edges of normal – and that should mean less drugs if I continue improving ) and I decided to take the train up which I can thoroughly recommend . A beautiful scenic trip and an opportunity to read my book and relax all for the princely sum of $17.60 return!! I parked at the train station all day with no meter or parking ticket required. The train took me right into the middle of the city where I went a little crazy for a couple of hours buying new trainers (Bailey has ruined all 3 pairs that I own – just chewing the backs so they don’t fit properly around the ankles any more…) and soaking up all the new shops in Pitt Street Mall. Zara Home has finally landed in Oz and it brought back memories of shopping there every day for a week when we stayed in Barcelona! I was far more disciplined this time round and settled for a lovely sushi lunch with Tom instead. The choice of food overwhelmed me to be honest as we are pretty limited down here. So after loving the noise, the chaos, the choice of food and shopping I hopped back on the train where I was met by husband and hound at Gerringong for a walk along the beach and some local fish and chips – what more could a girl ask for??2016-01-08 04.57.17

We’ve decided to try and see a new place each week, weather permitting. There are so many terrific places tucked away along the coast and into the hinterland so that’s our aim for January. Kiama was our first hit and what a great little town it is. Scenically blessed with it’s coastline and together with the lovely old architecture along the main street and it’s cosmopolitan mix of homewares shops and cafes with modern Australian menus it’s well worth a visit.

Could you be anywhere other than Australia with those Norfolk Pine Trees???The Blow Hole and Lighthouse at Kiama2015-12-27 10.39.31Deer Willow is a gorgeous shop full of eclectic and unique items to tempt your shopping dollar.
The beautiful old Post Office at Kiama.

It’s rather unfortunate that I got a beautiful Kitchen Aid mixer for Christmas – something I have lusted after for years – especially when making all my cakes and desserts with a small hand held mixer (6 minutes of beating with that thing and you have serious boredom no matter WHAT music you’re playing to try and distract yourself). Unfortunate, not because I’m not ecstatic to be the proud owner of such a gorgeous thing, but because I now want to experiment with it and bake a gazillion things at the exact same time that I am attempting to lose some excess squidginess. As my ‘fat’ clothes are now ‘snug’ I can put it off no longer so I am thinking maybe I can eat super healthily 6 days a week and on the seventh I can make something with the Red Baron, then Cam can take the excess back to Sydney to share instead of leaving it here for me to eat the leftovers!

2016-01-05 09.36.45The Red Baron – truly a thing of beauty!!

Our ‘girls’ are starting to get quite brave now and travel further and further afield every time we let them out into the garden. Two of them are institutionalised and pretty much refuse to leave the sanctity of the chook pen despite their buddies clucking with joy as they scratch around in the mulch surrounding the apple trees. They seem to look longingly out at them but no matter how hard we try to encourage them they either can’t work out how to join them or they are the ones that escaped previously in a bad electrical storm and are now traumatised ?? I feel sorry for them because they are missing out on the joy of being truly free range chickens.2016-01-03 11.01.23We continue to explore the region – Shoalhaven Heads is an off leash area for dogs which means it’s on our radar with the Chocolate Drop. She loves the still water – so much easier than swimming against the surf and will retrieve a stick countless times before showing the slightest sign of losing interest. It is a great area for kids, kite surfing as well as fishing and is a little bit like going back in time to the 80’s. Simple fun never goes out of style.2016-01-09 16.09.30Tranquil Shoalhaven Heads.

As our 1st years house warming gift to ourselves we have got 3 crepe myrtle trees arriving this Friday. They are ‘advanced’ although only 2 metres tall and they will provide us with some shade on the western side of the house that we will then be able to underplant with the longed for hydrangeas. Hopefully this will all be looking established and beautiful by D Day for the Engaged One. I’m sure once the guests are on their 3rd drink they wont even notice the surrounds but I’m aiming for a perfect day for the Princess – garden design included!!

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With all this thinking going on in my brain, shower time has become even more important – When I saw this I was pretty sure someone had been eavesdropping on me……….

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New beginnings

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What is it about a New Year that gets you thinking about your life and where it’s been or where it’s going???? Despite the hype about the ‘new you’ and resolutions each year it really is a good time to evaluate what you have and what you would like to change. It’s a bit scary sometimes but it’s always worth embracing change and seeing where it takes you. Breaking big things down into simple steps makes it a lot more do-able and as with everything the first step is often the hardest to take. How good does it feel though when you begin? To leap into the unknown and suddenly find you can do something that you had always doubted you were capable of. Despite, and maybe because of, my ever increasing years on this planet I am determined to have a go at all those things I’ve thought about over the years. Never arty at school I would love to be able to paint but I’m never going to get any closer to achieving that if I don’t BEGIN! Write that book that I believe is inside me? – well don’t keep talking about it Suz – DO IT!!!

In the same vein I have decided to actually USE my approximately 40 cookery books instead of just reading them. We all fall into the habit of cooking our favourite recipes and repeating them ad nauseam instead of branching out and trying new dishes or cuisines. After over-buying at Christmas I literally have a pantry and fridge/freezer overflowing with STUFF. Add into the mix our extremely productive veggie patch and 6-7 eggs a day from the girls and I shouldn’t have to visit a Supermarket for anything other than loo paper for the next month! We have decided to spend January literally eating from the things we have on hand and just the odd bit of meat chicken or fish to pad things out. This means we will eat fresh, healthy food in interesting ways (gotta love Yottam Ottolenghi and his veggie recipes when you own a vegetable garden!!) and as well as saving money I reckon we might lose some of those spare kilos we’ve found over the past few months!!!

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If I don’t harvest every day my veggies become turbo charged and I end up with massive zucchinis and cucumbers, lettuce that bolt to seed in the blink of an eye and what looks like about 60 tomatoes that are going to ripen at the same time. No wonder the Italians came up with tomato passata day – it’s an all or nothing occurrence in the patch at this time of year. The eggplants and capsicums are also bursting forth and I’m already sick of ratatouille after only 3 weeks…..

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The produce comes rolling in on a daily basis !

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With just a couple of days left before she headed back to Honkers, the Engaged One crammed in as much Aussiness as she could – trips to the beach, walks down country lanes and wine on the veranda watching the sunset and due to our distance from Sydney invitations were extended to friends that she had missed the first weekend. It was lovely to see Sally as well as Claire and Andy down here and staying overnight meant for a long and relaxed catchup.

2015-12-30 19.50.21I will have to get the cubby house done up now that the first baby of the group is on it’s way – so exciting Claire and Andy!!2015-12-28 17.08.18Cheers Girls!!!

New Years Eve has never been a big thing for us and we are generally in bed well before the midnight hour except for those days when we were living a mere walk from Sydney harbour and the fabulous famous fireworks when it was definitely worth staying awake. This year we were content to go to the local Showground for the kiddies fireworks and tumble into bed but an invitation from our friends in Moruya changed our minds and after dropping The Engaged One for one last night of fun with all her Sydney friends in Mollymook we continued South and had a wonderfully relaxing 24 hours at The Five Mile. A bonfire in the back paddock with a gorgeous view over the rolling hills and some yummy food and wine and I was a happy little vegemite as we farewelled 2015.

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The wide vista from the back paddock of The Five Mile

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Goodbye 2015 – it’s been a fabulous first year in The Meadow…..

2015-12-31 20.08.12So as we headed back to The Meadow and our last night with Lauren we were grateful for the year just gone and excited for the one that lies ahead- especially now there is a wedding to plan (and therefore an even greater reason to keep the garden weed free and well planted). It is such fun to see our very own Princess plan her special day and I can already see why there is such an industry around weddings with every little detail to be considered and costed and seemingly available online – a fact I am grateful for with the fact the bride-to-be lives overseas and can only probably get back here once before the big day!2015-12-30 17.00.02A great spot for dreaming and planning…..

So my lovely readers I wish you all a 2016 full of wishes come true, adventures begun and ambitions fulfilled; Let’s believe everything is possible until proven otherwise and explore all the wonderful opportunities that life offers.

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Christmas Shenanigans

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A family photo at last!! (no matter how hard we tried Bailey would NOT turn around!!)

What a wonderfully busy family filled two weeks we have had. Our family from Switzerland joined us as well as Scotty, our ‘other’ son who shares a house with Tom and has been part of our Christmas morning for many years now.  All my pre conceived dreams of a country Christmas were fulfilled – a house full of people and chatter, a fridge full of food, a driveway full of cars and several eskies full of beer and wine! We somehow found beds for 10 people and despite the flies we managed a few evenings outside under the stars and during the day we were grateful for our large dining room and the veranda. It was made extra special by the fact we were celebrating Lauren’s engagement – a proposal from Berry on the 21st December enabled us to all celebrate together as a family and give our first Xmas in The Meadow an extra special flavour. As they hope to hold the wedding here we had an opportunity to discuss things before they head back to Hong Kong. Very special times for us all and we are very excited for the happy couple. Needless to say I am SUPER happy!!

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Congratulations beautiful daughter!!

As we had guests for 3-4 days we spread the Christmas deliciousness over a couple of days and had the big hot dinner on Xmas Eve night (this also happened to be the family patriarch’s 89th birthday) which was lovely. The room twinkled with the candles and fairy lights, some champers and big reds were consumed with many a toast for a happy Christmas, health and happiness for everyone and generally it was a lovely warm fuzzy evening.OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA

We backed up the next day with an early morning swim at the beach before heading home to unwrap our prezziess and bake the ham. Today was the future son-in-law’s birthday and another reason to break open the bubbles. We ended up eating a very late seafood lunch before adjourning to the veranda for an afternoon of games of bocce and cricket.

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Beautiful unspoilt 7 mile beach

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Merry Crimble everyone….
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The weather was perfect – 25 degrees and sunny – enabling us to enjoy a highly anticipated game of cricket. Cammo and Berry measured the pitch and then Cam mowed it nice and low – spray paint designated the crease and the whole family participated in the fielding. Bailey of course was by far the best out fielder as no-one had the energy to run across an acre to get the ball! Pop was the official umpire and I was the only injured party copping a ball just above the elbow from a rather apologetic son!

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Measuring and mowing the cricket strip….then …..

action!!

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So great that Pop could be with us for this special Christmas.

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A bit of furniture re-arranging to better enjoy the view and a few coldies….

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The table laid for Christmas Dinner

Now we are back to just three of us (plus the chocolate drop) and a steady stream of people popping by on the way to or from Sydney. I think we see more people down here than we did when we lived in the Big Smoke! We will be dropping the newly engaged one to Mollymook for NYE and we are continuing down to The Five Mile near Moruya to visit our dear friends. Hopefully next week the fridge will contain no more leftovers and the garbage bins will finally not be overflowing. The bottle recycling will have finished and the sheets/tea towels/napkins will have been washed and ironed ready for the next full house and Christmas 2015 will be a distant but fond memory. Another year has ended but for us it has been an amazing new adventure full of new friends, new experiences and new knowledge as we grapple with growing our own food amongst nature (my apricots were definitely more bird food than jam this year and the plums are heading in the same direction ). It is hard to think of living anywhere else now as we make our new life in The Meadow. Thanks to all of you for sharing it with us, I have been genuinely thrilled that so many of you have read this blog and I have thoroughly enjoyed writing it. In fact I have enjoyed it so much I have plans for a little writing project that I hope to be able to share with you all later in 2016!

Wishing you all a very Happy New Year from The Meadow

“Live the Life you Love”

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Animal Farm

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I don’t know what I really expected when I moved to the country – apart from breathing in the fresh air and looking out over the vibrant greenery of The Shoalhaven, having a few chooks for fresh eggs and a dog to sprawl on the veranda. I didn’t really think about the other animals around us and what impact they may have on our lives. Needless to say living in the middle of a dairy farm we have become privvy to the day to day hiccups of having 350 animals with a 24/7 routine of care. It’s so easy for us to sit in our lounge and look out at the cows wandering past to the milking shed and see one that’s hobbling or very thin and think they should be better looked after. We judge with our city aesthetic what animals should have/look like/be treated like and the reality is a whole lot different. It doesn’t mean the farmers don’t care but they don’t look at them quite the same way as us city pet owning folk do. It is upsetting when you see a dead calf, or cow and it takes a couple of days for them to be removed and I’m getting increasingly upset for poor old Neddy the horse that lives in the paddock adjacent to us.2015-12-14 07.11.29

He is in a completely treeless field – rain, hail and shine. No protection from the near 40 degree days and from the relentless westerly wind. He gets no visitors and no exercise. He twitches constantly with the hundreds of flies that buzz around him and when I get up close his hooves are all tattered and frayed. The people next door are lovely people (and apparently are doing her sister a favour by keeping the horse for her) but with a new baby and 10 acres of their own to look after Neddy is the last thing on their mind. So every week now I add a bag of carrots and a bag of apples to my shopping list to give Neddy boy a bit of a treat and the sound of a friendly voice when I feed them to him. I’m also seriously considering spraying him (as some of the girls I talk to do with their horses) to help with his fly problem. Am I just being a silly city girl who can’t cope with the reality of country living???

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On the other hand the respect I have for food producers is increasing on a daily basis as I discover first hand the problems of growing your own fruit and veg. Especially fruit. So many things can and do go wrong. The strong westerly and southerly winds both blow off any less than secure fruit, leaving it scattered all around for the rabbits and one apricot loving Chocolate Labrador. She walks past the fallen plums and goes straight for the furry little apricots and there is a trail of stones left to let me know exactly how many she has consumed. Then, if the fruit manages to stay attached to the tree, it makes it easy pickings for all the birds to fly in and have a few pecks (to check the ripeness)  and for any rogue fruit flies in the area to take up residence. If it escapes those hurdles we still have to get enough of the right kind of sunshine to ripen the fruit and make it eat worthy. At this rate I will be lucky if I get enough apricots to make one pot of jam and you can buy one of those from the supermarket for a few dollars – CRAZY! I still hold on to my dream of picking sun ripened fruit straight from the tree and biting into it’s voluptuous sweet perfumed flesh and thinking – WOW – that was worth all the hard work. If I ever get there I will let you know……

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In the meantime I am harvesting some lovely zucchini, green beans and yellow teardrop tomatoes and I was very excited to part the leaves on my capsicum plants the other day to see beautiful shiny peppers staring back at me. The eggplants are flowering and the red tomatoes are ripening so I will soon have enough ingredients for a ratatouille!!!

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At least our garden is providing us with some interesting veggies!!2015-12-13 09.31.13 My home grown J-Lo tomato!!

I had my last trip to Sydney before Xmas this week. A flurry of hair appointments, the last few bits of gift shopping and dinner with my lovely bookclub girls to celebrate Christmas and to give our Kris Kringle prezzies. I discovered when I attempted to decorate the house this week that all my decorations which had filled my previous little house so well were completely lost in this new one. I barely had enough decorations to cover the two fireplace mantels and the hall table so I stopped off at a Xmas warehouse for a few more bags of goodies.

All my beautiful Book Club girls………….

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We will wait until next week to buy our tree to keep it looking as fresh and happy as possible for the big day. We want to place it in our bay window which is the perfect visual location for it but unfortunately it gets the sun all day long and the pine needles will be struggling after 10 days. I am sure it will look lovely and Christmassy once it is installed and I even splashed out on a new angel/fairy to look over us all from the top of the tree!! A visit to the new Harris Farm at Drummoyne sent me into a rhapsody before heading home with the boot full of bags of beautiful produce that I can’t get down here – in fact it was the first time I’ve had a twinge that I don’t live in Sydney since I moved! We have a Harris Farm in Bowral and I think I will be going there to get my Xmas food as the choice is vast – with huge wheels of cheese and fabulous cold meats as well as all the fresh stuff….sigh………

Well,  Christmas is just a little over a week away and despite all the many, many lists, the meal planning, the gift buying, the decorating, the never ending shopping and spending, the wrapping and the cooking,  it is still something I love and look forward to. For our entire family to be together is the best gift I could have and I just wish I was a bit closer to England so I could share some of the chaos and fun with my Mum, Sister and family. This year we have 10 of us here for the big day and as we are so far away we will have all 10 staying with us so I have been madly buying bed linen, pillows and duvets so everyone can be comfortable. Throw into the mix the fact that my Father-in-law has his birthday on Xmas Eve and Lauren’s boyfriend has his on Xmas day and we have a very special few days in store! Cammo is going to mow a cricket pitch on the front lawn, the drinks fridge will be bulging at the seams, the table tennis and darts are available if the weather is gloomy and many a story will be relayed on the front veranda just as it has for the past 119 years! We are off to the Christmas tree farm this Friday to cut down our very own tree (very Clark Griswold of us don’t you think??) and as we have 12 foot ceilings we can get a lovely big tree to decorate. The turkey, ham and pork are ordered and we have a lovely home made pudding from our friend Smutzer. A game of golf is planned for Xmas Eve while the girls cook up a storm and Bing Crosby has been downloaded onto Spotify to keep the tradition going albeit in a new way! The Meadow will be echoing to the beat of a different drum this year but we are just the most recent keepers of the keys and the latest chapter in the story of the White House down the Lane in The Meadow………..

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Have a great Christmas everyone !!